what is the definition of love? Why is love so painful?

                  well I want to start with Me and then I will answer the questions. Hi, my name is Mariam this is my first time doing a blog and I hope you like this. well I had a hard time to answer my questions so I finally got the answers. let’s began with the first question. what is the definition of love? well love is intense feeling of deep affection. the second question why love is so painful? well love itself does not hurt, It is growth that hurts, the ego that stings. Each transformation is painful because the old situation is being left behind for the new. For example, when a relationship ends we feel hurt, our hopes and dreams have crashed and we feel lost and lonely, wondering what comes next.